The topics of degradation and humiliation are often some of the most polarizing topics in D/s. People either love them or hate them. They live for them or hard limit them. I don’t have an opinion on any one view being right or wrong, I’m vastly more interested in why they tend to be seen from such opposing views.
I have no moral qualms with consensual humiliation and degradation. If one person wants it and the other person wants to do it, great. From my experiences over the years, I have found that the people who are most strongly opposed to them often cannot envision why a sub would consent to those acts.
I have already covered the dominant perspective in posts in the past, but here is a quick rehash of what I have found:
From a male dominant perspective, they do not want to engage in something that…
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